From Breast Cancer Patients And Medical
Providers (page 3)
Out of
difficulties grow miracles. - Anonymous
7-7-98
TO WHOM IT MAY
CONCERN:
IN
JUNE OF 1995 MY WIFE OFELIA WAS DIAGNOSED WITH BILATERAL
BREAST CANCER. SHE UNDERWENT A DOUBLE BILATERAL MASTECTOMY
FOLLOWED BY SEVEN MONTHS OF HIGH
DOSE CHEMOTHERAPY.
IN
AUGUST OF 1997 WE FOUND OUT THAT HER CANCER HAD
RETURNED TO BOTH LUNGS, MULTLEBLE KNODULES. WE HAD
BEEN AND STILL WAS IN CONSTANT TOUCH WITH SHELLY
BLECHMAN OF WIN AGAINST BREAST CANCER. WE HAD HEARD OF
SHELLY FROM THE AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY AT THE START
OF THIS BATTLE. SHELLY FROM DAY ONE GAVE US INCREDIBLE
SUPPORT AND ENCOURAGEMENT. SO I KNEW WHO
WE NEEDED TO TALK TO IN NOVEMBER OF 1997 WHEN OFELIAS
DR'S TOLD HER THAT ALL THEY COULD DO WAS MAKE HER COMFORTABLE
AND PUT A CHEST TUBE IN HER. MY WIFE HAD
NOT RESPONDED TO CONVENTIONAL CHEMO AND HAD PLURAL
INFUSIONS OF BOTH LUNGS. SHE HAD ONLY ABOUT ONE FOURTH
USE OF HER RIGHT LUNG AND HER LEFT LUNG WAS TOTALLY
COLLAPSED. TWO ATTEMPTS TO DRAIN HER LUNGS FAILED. IT
WAS THE DAY BEFORE THANKSGIVING AND I LOOKED AT MY
WIFE AND SAID "HONEY DO YOU REALLY WANT TO STAY
HERE" SHE REPLIED NO. WE LEFT AGAINST THE WISHES
OF HER DOCTORS SOON THEREAFTER. WE GOT HOME AND
IMMEDIATELY CONTACTED SHELLY. SHE REFERRED US TO SIDNEY
KIMMAL CANCER RESEARCH CENTER OF SAN DIEGO,CA. WE DID
AS SHE SUGGESTED AND THEY PUT MY WIFE ON A STUDY
CALLED FUMA. SINCE THAT TIME MY WIFE'S PLURAL INFUSION
HAS TOTALLY DISAPPEARED. MOST IMPORTANT IS THAT THERE
HAVE BEEN NO SIDE EFFECTS FROM THE TREATMENT AND MY
WIFE ONCE BEDRIDDEN NOW WALKS THREE MILES OR MORE PER
DAY. WITHOUT SHELLY AND WIN AGAINST BREAST CANCER I AM
CONVINCED THAT MY WIFE WOULD BE DEAD NOW.
...I STRONGLY
ENCOURAGE ANY AND ALL BREAST CANCER SURVIVORS
AND THEIR RELATIVES TO PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL WIN
AGAINST BREAST CANCER FOR THE BEST SUPPORT I BELIEVE AVAILABLE
TO ANYONE ANYWHERE IN THIS WORLD.
-- TOM AND
OFELIA
28 June, 1998
Dear Ms. Mullen,
I
would like to acknowledge and compliment WIN/ABC for
the Breast Buddy Support Program that was made
available to me.
On
September 5, 1997, while showering I palpated a mass
in the lower outer quadrant of my left breast.
Initially the fine needle aspiration revealed
fibroadenoma. What a relief! However, I was not
convinced of such a favorable outcome. My maternal
grandmother was reported to have a breast mass. She
died of a pulmonary embolus. My mother succumbed to
neurological complications of breast cancer in 1996.
My sister was diagnosed with breast cancer in 1994,
she is doing well. had I escaped this familial breast
cancer syndrome? No. The lumpectomy revealed breast
cancer, tubular histology, which is considered rare.
Axillary dissection revealed no tumor. Radiation
therapy was done.
I
cried for three consecutive days after learning of the
diagnosis. Since reading is one of my hobbies and the
library is my favorite place to visit, I journeyed to
the bookroom to find information. One of the books I
read listed WIN/ABC. Since this was a local group, I
called for advice.
I
met Renee Gaines. She was very supportive. Her voice
expressed empathy and compassion. She promptly sent me
information about the organization, the breast buddy
program, books on breast cancer, general information
an malignancy and links to the Internet. After I hung
up the phone I felt better because there was some one
to talk to. Renee still calls or writes a note to say
hello. It is people like her who make the world
special.
...Once
I reach the one year anniversary as a breast cancer
survivor I would like to become a breast buddy. Please
send an application to me.
I am forever
grateful to WIN/ABC!
-- Vickie
Setbacks pave the
way for comebacks. - Prism
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